You’re finally engaged to the love of your life — congratulations! Now it’s time to plan the wedding of your dreams. At Epic Thyme, we believe it’s possible to make wedding planning fun, minimize stress, and “keep the peace” with your fiancé, friends, and family. Not sure how to make wedding planning fun? That’s why we’re here! Keep reading to learn what to expect and how to have fun wedding planning.
Is It Normal Not To Enjoy Wedding Planning?
Yes, it's completely normal not to enjoy every single moment of wedding planning. You might find yourself overwhelmed with decisions, budgets, and opinions from all sides, which can make the whole process feel more like a chore than a celebration. But remember, you're not alone in these feelings. Many couples experience the same stress and pressure. It's important to take a step back and remind yourself why you're doing this in the first place — to celebrate the love and commitment you share.
What Is the Most Stressful Thing About Wedding Planning?
The most stressful thing for a lot of couples is juggling the budget while trying to make countless decisions that seem to come all at once. You might feel pulled in different directions, with everyone offering their opinions and expectations, which can add to the pressure. It's normal to worry about staying within your financial limits while wanting everything to be perfect.
What we recommend? Make a list of must-haves and nice-to-haves, and try to stay flexible when needed. Take deep breaths, delegate tasks, and don’t hesitate to take breaks to enjoy each other’s company amidst the planning chaos.
How Not To Be Stressed About Wedding Planning?
Wedding planning doesn't have to be a whirlwind of stress, especially when you have support like the Epic Thyme team by your side. We take on a ton of the planning responsibilities, freeing you up to focus on the fun to-dos, like cake tasting and selecting your dream playlist. We dedicate over 350 hours to every wedding, making sure you have complete support throughout the entire process. You can learn more about our planning process here!
How To Make Wedding Planning Fun: 7 Stress-Free Ideas
Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, excited, nervous, or all of the above, here are seven ideas to make wedding planning fun and more relaxed.
1. Set Clear Expectations
Wedding planning encompasses a myriad of tasks — from selecting seating arrangements to picking out the perfect flowers and hiring the ideal band and caterer. Before you dive into the whirlwind of decisions, you and your fiancé should establish clear expectations about each other's involvement.
We believe it's fantastic for both of you to be engaged in the process, as it prevents future conflicts about someone not pulling their weight or another taking over. By dividing responsibilities, like one of you handling the catering and the other overseeing the floral arrangements, you'll both contribute in meaningful ways that add excitement to your big day. When expectations are clear, they are more likely to be met and make the journey of planning your wedding a shared and joyful adventure.
2. Value Each Other’s Opinion and Ideas
Speaking of flowers, food, and music, do you and your fiancé have the same taste? Are you on the same page when it comes to the look and feel of your wedding day? As you begin the wedding planning process, you may find that you each have different ideas of what your “dream wedding” looks like. It’s helpful to get on the same page early in the process, and the best way to do that is by valuing each other’s opinions and ideas. Always hear them out and understand the reason behind their idea. You may even find they have an idea you love!
You may also find you need to compromise — if you get to choose the flowers and food, he gets to choose the band. If he wants to pick the wedding colors, you get to pick your first dance song. There are ways to make this day special and enjoyable for everyone. And it begins by being open to new ideas and making this the wedding of both of your dreams.
3. Practice Effective Communication
You may have heard that effective communication is the key to a successful relationship. We’re here to tell you it’s also the key to successful wedding planning! At Epic Thyme, we’ve seen many couples have fun wedding planning by sharing expectations and ideas throughout the entire process.
Wedding planning can sometimes spark conflicts, especially when family and friends share their well-meaning but unsolicited opinions that don't quite match your vision. Differences in traditions, debates over the guest list, and budget allocations — like whether to splurge on a wedding dress or the honeymoon — are other common stress points.
At Epic Thyme, we help navigate these tricky waters by talking through these topics with you and acting as a mediator to find solutions that work for everyone involved. The best way to sidestep potential conflicts is to address these issues upfront. For example, if you and your partner have different religious backgrounds, we can explore ways to honor both traditions in your ceremony!
4. Decide on a Budget Together (and stick with it)
Talking about money might not be the most romantic part of wedding planning, but setting a budget together is a game changer. It’s all about deciding who’s chipping in and how much so you both feel good about what you’re spending on your big day and honeymoon.
A LendingTree study found that “45% of newlyweds between the ages of 18 and 53 went into debt to pay for their wedding.” And once married, nearly half of those couples contemplated divorce due to their wedding-related debt and fights about money.
Keeping an eye on the budget means you’re not diving into debt, which is super important when you’re starting your new life together. At Epic Thyme, we're all about helping you create the wedding of your dreams without breaking the bank. We’ve got loads of creative tricks up our sleeve to tackle any budget hiccups. We can help make your vision come true while keeping things financially savvy!
5. Hire a Wedding Planner To Coordinate The Details
Planning a wedding can sometimes feel overwhelming, but you can save yourself a lot of stress and keep the fun alive by hiring an experienced wedding planning company. A wedding planner will take care of all those pesky details, making sure you stick to your timeline and budget while enjoying the journey every step of the way.
At Epic Thyme, we're so passionate about being part of your wedding adventure. We believe planning your big day should be as joyful and exciting as the day itself. With us, you'll find the process light and easy, allowing you to savor every moment. Remember, when it’s about keeping things smooth and stress-free, having a planner who's truly on your side makes all the difference.
6. Divide and Conquer
Together, you, your fiancé, and your wedding planning team can plan an epic wedding! Whether you opt for day-of coordination, partial planning, or full-service planning from start to finish, your wedding planner is your teammate. They're ready to step in and assist with every part of the planning process. You don’t have to do it on your own. You have your wedding planner, and, most importantly, you have each other.
7. Remember You and Your Fiancé Are on the Same Team
When the budget is tight, or you become overwhelmed by the wedding planning process, the most important thing to remember is that you and your partner are on the same team. This is our best tip for how to make wedding planning fun. Let this time bring you even closer together. Lean on each other for support and make important wedding decisions together. Keep the peace by keeping love at the center of all you do as you plan the most wonderful day of your life.
Have Fun Wedding Planning With an Epic Planning Team in Tahoe
Have you and your fiancé imagined the wedding of your dreams? Don't let planning stress overshadow the thrill of creating your perfect day! At Epic Thyme, we're the go-to wedding planners in Lake Tahoe, trusted by hundreds of happy couples. We're here to make your dream wedding come true, minus the hassle. Ready to get started? Reach out to us, and let's make magic happen!
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